Saturday, November 26, 2005

Big Boyz Toyz = Beri Beri Terok

This is by far the worst car show I had been to. Even the Kia road show I attended at Suntec city seems to be more interesting.

Yah, got car babes. No, I think they are bicycle babes. Calling them car babes is an insult.

It is really a disappointment given that I read praises about it the day before.

Oh well, to each his own.

Btw, I had only attended two car shows so far. This one and another one about 5 years ago. But the one 5 years ago was touted as Japanese Car Show. They actually "imported" actual Japanese Race Queens to be the car babes. Now that is worth the admission alone.

Moreover you get to see quite a few concept cars.

Unlike this B.B.T.z, got electronics, toys, sex toys. So rojak.

I'll see if I could scan in the Jap car shows pics to show you what I mean.

In the meanwhile, save your $10 for something else. I will show you the exhibition here.








Thursday, November 24, 2005

Rain and rain and rain

Although it isn't while I'm typing this but I think the situation won't last long.

My plans to roller-blade last week was thwarted because of the weather.

Sianz.

But need to take things in stride.

Cannot outdoor then do indoor.

Not roller-blade indoor lah. My this weekend should be pretty packed. I intend to visit the Big Boyz Toyz exhibition at Singapore Expo.

They make it like a men's fantasy kind of things so will be checking out that place for the FHM babes cars.

My camera is fully charged and standing by. *drool*

Check out the curve!
Car lah~!


And sunday I'm expecting to be activated for manning. Haiz. Why the hell must they have it be located in extreme west of ulu Singapore of all places. It's time like this that I really wish that I have a car.

Somemore I am arrowed appointed to be the detachment I/C. I have to call about 30 people who stays around my neighbourhood.

Some of these guys I think is really hate army or what. No handphone, no pager, only house number. And house number no one picks up or it's always engaged.

It's like trying to shake off a stalker. You move house, change name. But to each his own. Just don't point at me if you kanna charge and go DB hor. At most I promised to water your plants while you are away.

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

What I learned today

Thoughts are best to be kept up inside.

No opinions = no reaction.

Go figure.

My burgeoning expenditure

I was reading BM's posting about our expenses on mobile and internet. This is something I have always ponder over as well.

Like my friend Desmond used to say, "a few dollars here, a few dollars there, you wouldn't have any much left."

Which is very true.

5 years ago when I was still an NSF, my expenses were:
  1. Pager
  2. Dial-up internet
  3. Transport
= no savings

5 years later today:
  1. Handphone
  2. Cable modem
  3. SCV
  4. Insurance
  5. Credit cards repayment
  6. Family allowance
  7. Transport (and soon, a car)
= lagi no savings

In time to come:
  1. House
  2. Kids
  3. And all other expenses that comes with it.
= bankrupt

This is not including the many fine dinings I had within a month(my quota was once a month but I always breach it)

Like I said before, my NS time was considered one of my happiest time(minus the training period). Close to zero committment and not being home 5.5 days a week also reduced my contribution to the electric/water bill.

And maybe that is why I've been feeling not my happy self for quite sometime. Those who knows me should notice the change because even I could see it. I talked lesser, socialize even lesser, gets agitated very easily and became less crappy too.

The stress load of all these expenses and consideration of future ones seems to be taking a toll on me.

Yes, Singapore is an expensive place to live in but it can still be affordable if one is prudent.

Maybe lunching alone these few days gave me much time to reflect on my life. And for once, I begin to miss my old self.

I'm writing this out to remind myself as a pledge to bring my old self back and to do so, normalize my expenses.

And I'm not going to give myself excuses like I'll start next year while I enjoy this xmas. These are simply procrastination which will lead me to write a part 2 on this subject again.

Drastic times call for drastic measures. Apart from externalities, I will :
  1. Clear my cc repayment by March 06
  2. Keep only 2-3 cc, the rest cut.
  3. Get a cheaper internet plan once current one expire.
  4. Swap for a even cheaper mobile plan.
  5. Reduce my SCV plan
  6. No fancy dinners til March 06 (except my wife bday next month)
  7. Source for a tutor, lecturer part-time post at local private school
  8. Channel all but bare-minimum-for-survial salary into savings account.
= no holidays, no expensive shirts, no new hp.

No choice, it's tough but if I had exercise prudency back then, I wouldn't have to be doing this.

Monday, November 21, 2005

My wife ate my breakfast

Reason why I should be on track to becoming slimmer.

Her deluxe set breakfast with hashbrown, sausages, two sunshine eggs and complete with a cup of warm milk tea.


Mine...

Sunday, November 20, 2005

The price of skipping NS

A lot of people are taking $5K out of context and feels that that is a measly fine to pay to avoid NS and the liability that comes with it.

When it comes to things like this, many also conveniently overlooked the fact that he hasn't put a foot into the country for the past 37 years and his decision was him on the brink of starting a career in classical music.

So to the majority of group of blue/white collars out there, compare apple to apple. Not everyone can willingly give up 37 years away from all the things in Singapore(including your parents) because of a greater persuit.

Nov 20, 2005
Pianist pays NS dues - 28 years later
He is fined for defaulting on his NS after he decides to return, as his aged parents are finding it difficult to visit him in London

By Kristina Tom

AFTER staying away from Singapore for nearly 30 years because he defaulted on his national service, pianist Melvyn Tan has finally paid his dues.

The 49-year-old, who has lived in the United Kingdom for the last 37 years, has paid a fine for not fulfilling his national service duty and will be performing at the Esplanade next month.

In an interview with The Sunday Times, a visibly relieved Mr Tan said that he is glad to have put the past behind him.

He has not stepped onto Singapore soil all these years because he had feared that he would be arrested and thrown into jail.

But his 86-year-old father and 80-year-old mother are getting too old to make the regular trips to London to visit him at his home in Notting Hill, London.

So he decided to take a 'risk'. After informing the authorities of his intention to return, he came home in April for a court hearing.

The hearing lasted 30 minutes but he had never been so nervous in his life. 'It was very, very nerve-wracking,' he said.

To his relief, he was asked only to pay a fine.

He claims that he cannot remember the amount.

Under the Enlistment Act, those who evade national service can be fined up to $5,000 or sent to jail for up to three years, or both.

Although Mr Tan became a British citizen in 1978, he was still a Singapore citizen when he failed to fulfil his NS duties, making him answerable for the offence in a Singapore court.

In 1994, The Straits Times quoted a lawyer who said that one of his clients, a 39-year-old French citizen, was arrested at the airport on arrival, fined and made to complete nine months of training.

Mr Tan, who has an elder sister, was studying at Anglo-Chinese School when he left Singapore to study at the Yehudi Menuhin School in Sussex. He was then 12 years old.

After he finished his course, he stayed on in England to study at the Royal College of Music instead of coming home to serve national service in 1977.

He said: 'When I was at the Royal College and I got my final call-up, I was just on the brink of starting a career. I thought about it and thought about it and realised that I was not going to get this chance again.

'So I made that very difficult decision to not return. It meant I could never come back.'

Mr Tan first made his mark in the classical world with his performances on the 19th-century fortepiano, the precursor to the modern concert grand.

In the 1980s and 1990s, he produced a series of recordings that popularised the early music movement, regarded as a slightly eccentric niche within the music world.

He has about 30 recordings to his name and a regular touring schedule in Europe.

Along with Seow Yit Kin and Margaret Leng Tan, he has helped Singapore to gain recognition on the global piano scene.

The pianist is wasting no time in reconnecting with the Singapore music scene.

He goes back to England tomorrow, but will return early next month to sit on the jury of the National Arts Council's biennial National Piano and Violin Competition, which starts Dec 7 and ends Dec 18.

He said that he is getting to know Singapore, which he describes as 'unrecognisable', all over again. And, of course, he has been feasting on his favourite foods such as popiah.

But the best part about being able to come home as a free man was showing up at his mother's 80th birthday party on Thursday.

His parents still live in his childhood home in Lengkok Angsa, off Paterson Road. 'There were a few tears,' he said. 'She was just delighted. It was the best birthday present she's ever had.'

ktom@sph.com.sg

Bored and pissed

Just when you think your day can't be worst, someone gotta come along and pissed you off.

Now I know why I like to spend time alone. I can't possibly make myself angry.

My new blogskin

Yeah, I know the flowers a bit sissy but I seriously can't find anything better that fits nicer dimensionally.

And I can't find anything more interesting to do on this saturday night either.

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Post-birthday blues

Having lived for 26th years, I can confidently say that there are two certainties in life.

1. We are always short of time.
2. We will all die someday.

This always strike me more often than not, espcially when I think back to my happier times during high school and NS. Back then, it's just play and play.

Coming back to reality, I have left school for 10 years and NS for 5.

And this sentiment seems to hit me harder as I'm edging closer to my 30s. And it doesn't help that I'm running through resumes of 16 year old applicants who just finished their sec school.

Much as I think men become more charming with age(think Pierce Brosnan), it still frightens me to know that I may be trading in my pimple cream for anti-wrinkle cream soon.

Am I starting to experience mid-life crisis? hmmmm....

Call me Bond. Charming Bond

Monday, November 14, 2005

My next rollerblade challenge

I shall conquer the 10 km this weekend. Muhahaha

Singaporeans can now take a stroll from one park to another via a 10 kilometre-long connector.

At a Clean and Green Week Carnival on Saturday, National Development Minister Mah Bow Tan announced the completion of the Coast-to-Coast Park Connector.

The connector links East Coast Park to Pasir Ris Park and is just one part of a 170-kilometre long network.

Mr Mah said the whole network was expected to be ready in about 10 years.

At the event at Bedok Reservoir, Mr Mah also launched the 'Green Fingers' initiative to encourage the public to take ownership of the surrounding environment. - CNA /ch

Sunday, November 13, 2005

My bday @ Scarlet

My 26th bday cake! :D

What a tiring and fulfilling bday for myself. I'm all shag out now but will ooze out my last ounce of strength and show you what I just came back from. It is a place that will make you turn off about your own house/room.

My full of surprise wife booked us a room at the Scarlet Hotel in Tanjong Pagar. This must be the most stylo milo , traditional western inspired hotel in Singapore. Step in and let me show you:

The entrance to heaven

Wow....

Balls of lighting

I'm thinking of getting this for my office

I saw this in their gym. Towel holder also so stylo.

Onwards to their Jacuzzi. No, this is just the signboard.

Here it is. Can't wait to get in.

*Splash!*


View from the top

If you think these are good, wait til you get to the room
I'm really impressed by the level of details. Just look at the bathroom pic.

Let me zoom in a little bit

Somemore...

I've been to so many doesmtic and overseas hotel. This is the very first time I saw one that provides mouthwash! It's housebrand. Not cheap, albeit it doesn't taste good.

See, all under the "Flair" branding. They sell it at one of their shops but not cheap man.

This shower head as big as my head.

Not only the dustbin have a leather case,

Newspaper holder outside the door also leather!

Not a cheap place to stay in but the level of details is really unparelled.

My only complaint is they gave us a room with two single beds instead of one big one. But it's ok. At least no one to snatch my blanket in the mid of the night. hee

And to end it off, local style:

Our sumptous breakfast.




Friday, November 11, 2005

The new MPs for Buangkok?

Buangkokreans! Now you know who could help you. White elephants to be Buangkok MPs!

Buangkok MRT station may open in January

By Goh Chin Lian
Nov 11, 2005
The Straits Times

TWO years of lobbying by grassroots leaders in Punggol South may finally have paid off, with plans underway to open Buangkok MRT station in January.

The Straits Times understands that Transport Minister Yeo Cheow Tong could reveal the details officially tomorrow.

The station would have opened only in 2008, based on the Land Transport Authority's previous guideline that there must be 2,000 to 3,000 housing units within 400m of a station to justify opening it.

But Mr Yeo indicated in August that the guideline was not set in stone.

He said the 400m radius could be extended to 500m and the station could open as long as there were close to 2,000 units within that larger area.

Based on figures from Pasir Ris-Punggol Town Council, there are already about 2,300 units within 500m of the station.

Asked to comment on the plans to open the station, the authorities, plus transport operator SBS Transit and even the usually vocal Pasir-Punggol GRC MP Charles Chong were keeping quiet.

But sources told The Straits Times the go-ahead has been given.

Before the station can open, operational trials have to be conducted, including ensuring that the trains stop properly at the station. When The Straits Times visited the station earlier this week, maintenance staff were working inside and the ticketing machines were switched on.

The opening of the station should bring an end to a two-year saga that started in June 2003, when SBS announced, four days before opening the $4.6 billion North-east Line, that Buangkok station would stay closed.

Many residents in the area felt cheated, particularly those who had bought a home in the belief that the station would open. Instead they have to walk, cycle or take a feeder bus to Hougang or Sengkang stations if they want to use the MRT.

Mr Chong and his grassroots leaders lobbied SBS to change its mind, producing polls which showed people were willing to walk more than 400m to the station, but SBS rejected the findings.

Several ministers spoke publicly on the issue and held out the promise that the station would open once more people moved in.

Unconvinced, someone placed eight cut-outs of white elephants on a road divider outside the station before a minister's visit in August, sparking a public debate about protesting and political expression, and ending with the culprit receiving a stern warning from the police.

So is the planned opening of the station a sweetener for the upcoming general election?

Chairman of the Government Parliamentary Committee for Transport, Mr Ong Kian Min, did not think so.

'It's coincidental,' he said. 'There's been a lot of pressure for them to open Buangkok station. The pressure has been piling up. It's good for them to review and make a decision.'

Monday, November 07, 2005

Countdown timer

After spending hours in front of my PC, I finally created zero graphic, static countdown timer.

This will be used to keep track of the day(12th March 2006) when I will go down to make a booking for my car. It also happens to be my wedding anniversary btw. A very expensive gift. sob...sob...

I drive it only so why is it a gift? Coz my car is not only my car, it is also my wife's taxi. =_=

I only have one customer and my meter is always down.

Saturday, November 05, 2005

Nokia N92

Is this cool or what?

Nokia N92


Nokia N92


Nokia N92

Friday, November 04, 2005

Words to live by....

Fate determines who comes into our lives.

Our attitude and actions determine who stays in our lives.
Two short sentences but so spot-on on the repercussions of our actions and attitudes.

My first test-drive

My office was closed today and thought it would be an excellent idea to go for my very first test-drive.

Yippee!

I had not driven for like ages. The last time I drove I think was back in 2002. My colleague from the sales department need to passed some documents to his customer in Choa Chu Kang. But he is also due to attend the weekly sales meeting.

Being the ever trusty colleague, he entrusted me with the task and passed me his car keys. I had wanted to take a cab actually but how to turn down people's vote of confidence in me. *wink*

I set off from Raffles Place at 3.30pm and grinned while walking to the car park. Driving in a private car, on a public road with the radio screaming in the background is therapy to me.

Alas after numerous failed attempts to change into the correct lanes and even more instances of missed entrances/exits, I finally reach my destination just when it started to rain.

Time: 5.30pm. A 2 hours transit. Wah Piangz.

The return wasn't so bad and no visible damage was apparent. And I started the trip with almost zero petrol. The car really can tahan on thirst!

SO!, I was visibly nervous about driving a car again after so long.

I'm on a budget so I tested those that I think I still can afford without breaking an arm and leg. Breaking either one only I still can contend with.

Anyway, I first went to Kia and tried this.

It's the latest Rio. They have hatchback and Sedan but I'm only looking at the latter. Hatchback I always feel is meant for ladies. So a bit ah gua chia if a man drives it.

I tested the 1.4l Auto

I'm not a car guru so all I can say it is cheap, it has a sports edition which I like(i.e. body kit, black leather seats with red threading). And although it's a budget car, the interior don't feel as cheapo(read: poor plastiky feel/look) as compared to a hyundai accent.

The engine is also pretty quiet.

But this car will be everywhere in time to come. They already sold a couple of hundreds and even if I had placed the order earlier, I need to wait til Feb/Mar.

I went next to try Chevrolet Aveo.

About the same but no sports edition so no body kit. Can't satisfy the ah beng side of me.

More spacious than Rio but heavier too I think. Interior quite ok. Price is about the same. But my wife prefers this one.

I won't be getting now. Most likely to get it early next year and hopefully to take delivery only from April.

Yah, I know. Car's a liability, take public transport better/cheaper, blah blah blah.

I fully agree. But I'm not getting this to show off(a mini cooper?). I getting this for convenience sake. I wish to have more options in spending quality time with my family and also bring convenience to my ageing mum in reducing her reliance on public transport whereby she needs to stand on long journeys.

The weight of the cost of ownership will be borned by me and my wife so it's bearable(I hope she don't get her license, haha)

So GOODBYE long waits for SBS and MRT and HELLO long waits for parking lots!

WooHoo!

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

"Richness" comes from within?

Kudos to Mr Wang who helped me to see things from another angle.

With reference to scientific studies somemore, how to dispute? ;)

Perhaps it could be best captured in the following sentences:
  1. Your digital camera; your handphone; your 19-inch monitor; your most expensive shirt; your watch. Did they bring you happiness when you first purchased them? Quite possibly, yes. Do they still bring happiness now? Nope. The novelty has worn off.
  2. And as for money curing the blues? Sure, a $1,000 increase in salary lifts the spirits. But it's more like a caffeine buzz than a higher plateau of enlightenment.
  3. Or, as the authors of "How to Be Happy, Dammit" say in Life Lesson #40: "It's not 'he who dies with the most toys wins.' It's 'he who has the most time to play with his toys and the most fun playing with them who wins.'"
Looking back to my time in school, in NS. I really enjoyed them the most. My salary during NS? $325 per month.

Fast forward to now. I'm typing this entry alone in the house. I have a PC, SCV, xbox in my room but somehow these can't replicate the similiar sense of happiness.

Money can buy you convenience and luxury but that does not necessarily equate to happiness.

So how can one find happiness? I can't go back to high school or NS again so consider the following:

How to be happy

What does matter? According to the University of Chicago's National Opinion Research Center:

  • People with five or more close friends (excluding family members) are 50% more likely to describe themselves as "very happy" than respondents with fewer.

  • A loving marriage: 40% of married American adults report themselves as "very happy," versus 26% of those who are not married.

  • Good health.

  • A connection with a congregation such as your community or a religious group.

On the other hand, a survey of 800 college alumni showed that classmates who valued high income, job success, and prestige more than close friends and love were twice as likely to be "fairly" or "very" unhappy."

Happy people, it seems, concentrate on their own successes and don't compare themselves -- their income, their family time -- with others. They do not judge others or dwell on negative feelings. If they do dwell on the better performance of a colleague or friend, it is to learn ways for self-improvement.

"By far the greatest predictor of happiness in the literature is intimate relationships," Sonja Lyubomirsky, a researcher at the University of California-Riverside, told a Chicago Tribune reporter. "It's definitely not money."

God to take over FIFA

At least from the views of these hare-brained.

On number 7, I'm proud to proclaimed that we normally play multiple games of 5 mins. Yes siree, we don't want to stray off from the righteous path. MUHAHAHAH!!!


Fatwas, the legal opinions proclaimed by Islamic scholars, have proliferated in the Muslim world since the 1980's, driven by rising literacy rates and the Internet. The growth in fatwas - some of them contradictory - has led to a debate over who can legitimately issue them and has alarmed governments in the Middle East, since the decrees sometimes challenge state-sanctioned interpretations of Islam.

Yet criticizing fatwas about divisive issues like the propriety of killing civilians and Shiites can be dangerous for officials. So the Saudi government is trying a different tactic, zeroing in on what it considers frivolous fatwas in order to rally support for tougher measures on who can and who cannot issue opinions. Recently, Al Watan, a semiofficial Saudi daily newspaper, reported that a young athlete had joined the jihad in Iraq under the influence of a fatwa forbidding playing soccer by regular rules. The newspaper also republished the fatwa, said to have originally appeared on an Islamic Web site. Portions of the fatwa, which I translated from the Arabic, follow.
- GEOFF D. PORTER

IN the name of God the merciful and benevolent:

1. Play soccer without four lines because this is a fabrication of the heretics' international rules that stipulate using them and delineating them before playing.

2. International terminology that heretics and polytheists use, like "foul," "penalty," "corner," "goal," "out" and others, should be abandoned and not said. Whoever says them should be punished, reprimanded and ejected from the game. He should be publicly told, "You have imitated the heretics and polytheists and this is forbidden."

3. Do not call "foul" and stop the game if someone falls and sprains a hand or foot or the ball touches his hand, and do not give a yellow or red card to whoever was responsible for the injury or tackle. Instead, it should be adjudicated according to Sharia rulings concerning broken bones and injuries. The injured player should exercise his Sharia rights according to the Koran and you must bear witness with him that so-and-so hurt him on purpose.

4. Do not follow the heretics, the Jews, the Christians and especially evil America regarding the number of players. Do not play with 11 people. Instead, add to this number or decrease it.

5. Play in your regular clothes or your pajamas or something like that, but not colored shorts and numbered T-shirts, because shorts and T-shirts are not Muslim clothing. Rather they are heretical and Western clothing, so beware of imitating their fashion.

6. If you have fulfilled these conditions and intend to play soccer, play to strengthen the body in order to better struggle in the way of God on high and to prepare the body for when it is called to jihad. Soccer is not for passing time or the thrill of so-called victory.

7. Do not set the time of play at 45 minutes, which is the official time of the Jews, Christians and all the heretical and atheist countries. This is the time used by teams that have strayed from the righteous path. You are obliged to distinguish yourself from the heretics and the corrupted and must not resemble them in anything.

6. Do not play in two halves. Rather play in one half or three halves in order to completely differentiate yourselves from the heretics, the polytheists, the corrupted and the disobedient.

9. If neither of you beats the other, or "wins" as it is called, and neither puts the leather between the posts, do not add extra time or penalties until someone wins. No, instead leave the field, because winning with overtime and penalty kicks is the pinnacle of imitating heretics and international rules.

10. If you play soccer, do not appoint someone to follow you called a "referee," since there is no need for him after doing away with international rules like "foul," "penalty," "corner" and others. His presence would be in imitation of the heretics, Jews and Christians and would follow international rules.

11. Young crowds should not gather to watch when you play because if you are there for the sake of sports and strengthening your bodies as you claimed, why would people watch you? You should make them join your physical fitness and jihad preparation, or you should say: "Go proselytize and seek out morally reprehensible acts in the markets and the press and leave us to our physical fitness."

12. If you finish playing soccer, do not talk about your game and say, "We were better than the opponent," or "So-and-so plays well" and so on. Instead be concerned with your bodies and their strength and muscles, and say, "We played only to drill in running, attacking and retreating, and to prepare for jihad in the name of God on high."

13. You should spit in the face of whoever puts the ball between the posts or uprights and then runs in order to get his friends to follow him and hug him like players in America or France do, and you should punish and reprimand him, for what is the relationship between celebrating, hugging and kissing and the sports that you are practicing?

14. You should use two posts instead of three pieces of wood or steel that you erect in order to put the ball between them, meaning that you should remove the crossbar in order not to imitate the heretics and in order to be entirely distinct from the soccer system's despotic international rules.

15. Do not do what is called "substitution," that is, taking the place of someone who has fallen, because this is a practice of the heretics in America and elsewhere.

These are some conditions and precepts so that morally aware youth do not inadvertently imitate heretics and polytheists when playing soccer ... Hell awaits those who die playing soccer according to rules established by heretical countries, at the head of which is America.

Geoff D. Porter directs Middle East and North Africa analysis at a political risk consulting firm.